This Season

This Season

We are all so caught up in our own little bubbles to fix 2020 based on what we didn’t manage in 2019 and to comfort ourselves we have been sharing what we are leaving behind in 2019. Yes, that’s cliché and it shows how much we don’t even want to grow because our words don’t match our intentions at all.

Woza 2020. . . Am certain this post might hurt your feelings and I have no apologies for that. . . It hurt mine just getting to think about how much I have been missing the mark lately and was going to be doing it year after year if I was not going to look into some of these resolution habits we have.

Firstly, changing figures on a calendar doesn’t mean things will mysteriously change on their own. You can tell yourself you want a new or better paying job in 2020 but you are not building on your skills; the job you have based on your skill set is the best you can get.

Secondly, there was no massive load-shedding in 2015 and working overnight any day could function while in 2019 that couldn’t work; in short move with the times, just because it worked in the past it doesn’t mean that it will work forever.

And lastly, be honest with yourself and stop looking at what other people say or think about your goals and plans. Yes, you can move back to your parent’s house because things are rough out there for you. Yes, you can start that “not so fancy” business and make you some money. Yes, you can go ahead and do something great as long as it sits well with your soul and with God chapwa. . . Your family that truly cares will definitely understand and help you with whatever plan you are making.

You cant be the only one attending singles seminars and conferences yet you never practice what you learn at all. Change the trend for your life this time; do something different. Happy New year

Lets Run away Together

Lets Run away Together

There are some boundaries we set for ourselves not to cross; or is it just me? Am I the only one who feels they are going beyond the set boundaries when they do something they promised themselves not to?
Wow. . . Okay. . . Hi. .how are you doing. . . My name is Mayja. . . And am not your friend. . . I thought you used to draw these personal lines too. . . Anyways. . . Lets talk about this. . . Shall we?
Have you ever been in a beautiful place in life where you just wish you could stay there forever, but deep down your heart you know its a non starter? I mean, we all wish we could make that hotel room experience permanent right? Room service. . . (Though I find it irritating) . . . Having overpriced dinner just because you can’t afford to make time to cook; but have the money to pay for the meal :). I know. . . Am such a spoiler of great moments nha. . .
Here is the thing, that perfectly comfortable place is not a place to stay forever, instead its a place to help you refocus because your mind is in one place. It is not stressed, not overthinking or worrying about life; similar to a night club experience only without the heavy alcohol. You need such moments to reboot every now and then.

Yes, lets run away together, refocus, come back and when ever we lose it lets do it again till we dont.
The most important thing to do is pick the right person to run away with. . . Lets talk about that next time.
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